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When we choose a goal and invest ourselves in it to the limits of concentration, whatever we do will be enjoyable. And once we have tasted this joy, we will redouble our efforts to taste it again. This is the way the self grows.

Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

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The Self Grows

Topic: Spiritual Growth & Practice

It is when we act freely, for the sake of the action itself rather than for ulterior motives, that we learn to become more than what we were. When we choose a goal and invest ourselves in it to the limits of concentration, whatever we do will be enjoyable. And once we have tasted this joy, we will redouble our efforts to taste it again. This is the way the self grows.

 

Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

Mihály Csíkszentmihályi was born on September 29, 1934, in Fiume, Italy (now Rijeka, Croatia). Growing up during World War II, he experienced the hardships of the era, including being imprisoned as a child in Italy. These early experiences shaped his interest in understanding what makes life meaningful. At 22, after completing his secondary education in Rome, he immigrated to the United States and pursued psychology at the University of Chicago, where he earned both his B.A. in 1959 and his Ph.D. in 1965.

Csíkszentmihályi is best known for his concept of "flow," the state of complete immersion in an activity, often experienced during creative or challenging tasks. His interest in psychology began after hearing Carl Jung speak, which led him to explore the psychological aspects of creativity and happiness. His research showed that people often found fulfillment not from the outcome of their work but from the process itself. His book Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience (1990) became a key work in the study of human well-being.

Throughout his career, Csíkszentmihályi’s work contributed to the field of positive psychology, focusing on how people can lead more fulfilling lives. His studies, including the well-known "Experience Sampling Study," demonstrated that people were happier when engaged in tasks that challenged them just enough. Csíkszentmihályi authored many books and articles on creativity and happiness, leaving behind a legacy that continues to inspire people to find meaning in their daily activities. He passed away on October 20, 2021.

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Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience

Mihály Csíkszentmihályi, Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience, January 1, 1990 by Harper Perennial

Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi


Theme: Spiritual Growth

About This Mihály Csíkszentmihályi Quotation [Commentary] 

Mihály Csíkszentmihályi explores how deep concentration leads to both joy and growth. He explains, “when we choose a goal and invest ourselves in it to the limits of concentration, whatever we do will be enjoyable.” This enjoyment is not dependent on external rewards but emerges from being fully engaged in the activity itself. His concept of “flow” describes this state, where distractions fade, time seems to slow, and we are absorbed in the present moment. In such experiences, effort feels effortless, and the work itself becomes meaningful.

He emphasizes that true growth happens when we act freely, without ulterior motives, and dedicate ourselves to the process. “When we act freely, for the sake of the action itself rather than for ulterior motives, we learn to become more than what we were.” In this way, personal development is not about external achievement but about aligning with what deeply engages us. The satisfaction we find in such moments naturally encourages us to “redouble our efforts to taste it again,” reinforcing a cycle of learning and self-expansion.

“This is the way the self grows,” Csíkszentmihályi concludes, showing that meaningful engagement fuels ongoing transformation. Each time we experience this focused joy, we expand our abilities, making growth a continuous process rather than a final destination. When we commit to what truly engages us, we do more than improve—we evolve, shaped by the joy of being fully present in our chosen pursuits.

Mihály Csíkszentmihályi, Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience

Psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi’s groundbreaking research on “optimal experience” has uncovered “flow,” a state of consciousness which lies at the heart of genuinely satisfying experiences. During flow, individuals become fully immersed in an activity, experiencing deep enjoyment, heightened creativity, and a profound sense of engagement with life. This state is characterized by complete focus, loss of self-consciousness, and a distorted sense of time. Csikszentmihalyi’s work demonstrates that flow is not merely a matter of chance but can be deliberately cultivated and controlled. In his seminal book “Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience,” he outlines how we can harness this powerful state by strategically managing the information entering our consciousness, thereby unlocking our true potential, discovering authentic happiness, and significantly enhancing our overall quality of life. The key to achieving flow lies in striking a delicate balance between the complexity of a challenge and our skill level, ensuring that tasks are neither too easy nor too difficult.

―Mihály Csíkszentmihályi, Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience, January 1, 1990 by Harper Perennial

Additional Mihály Csíkszentmihályi Quotations

“The best moments in our lives, are not the passive, receptive, relaxing times—although such experiences can also be enjoyable, if we have worked hard to attain them. The best moments usually occur when a person’s body or mind is stretched to its limits in a voluntary effort to accomplish something difficult and worthwhile.

Optimal experience is thus something that we make happen. For a child, it could be placing with trembling fingers the last block on a tower she has built, higher than any she has built so far; for a swimmer, it could be trying to beat his own record; for a violinist, mastering an intricate musical passage. For each person there are thousands of opportunities, challenges to expand ourselves.”

―Mihály Csíkszentmihályi, Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience.

“Of all the virtues we can learn no trait is more useful, more essential for survival, and more likely to improve the quality of life than the ability to transform adversity into an enjoyable challenge.”

―Mihály Csíkszentmihályi, Flow: The Classic Work On How To Achieve Happiness: The Psychology of Happiness.

“If one has failed to develop curiosity and interest in the early years, it is a good idea to acquire them now, before it is too late to improve the quality of life.
To do so is fairly easy in principle, but more difficult in practice. Yet it is sure worth trying. The first step is to develop the habit of doing whatever needs to be done with concentrated attention, with skill rather than inertia. Even the most routine tasks, like washing dishes, dressing, or mowing the lawn become more rewarding if we approach them with the care it would take to make a work of art. The next step is to transfer some psychic energy each day from tasks that we don’t like doing, or from passive leisure, into something we never did before, or something we enjoy doing but don’t do often enough because it seems too much trouble. There are literally millions of potentially interesting things in the world to see, to do, to learn about. But they don’t become actually interesting until we devote attention to them.”

―Mihály Csíkszentmihályi, Finding Flow: The Psychology of Engagement with Everyday Life.